HOW? to get your EX back...

now its come to this part huh... i'm actually don't prefer this topic but still these should be interesting. 

i read quite a few books and article and most of them have the same similar steps and technique...

rather than telling us how to get our EX back they keep telling to avoid things that usually people do to get their Ex back... in my opinion... its actually also useful if you searching better guy of girl with these kind of techniques.

ERROR #1: Over Dose the Nice Part 

guys... please... don't do this. women actually think nice and good guy equal to boring guy. its their nature... girls like adventures and dramas all the time. breaking up part of it and don't ruin your machoness..  

men however really like nice and good girl but not just to them but to others too...men like to evaluate seeing how you interact with others.   so girls.... play hard to get to your EX is a good things.

ERROR #2: Being needy and DESPERATE

ohohoo.. this is annoying and actually keep your far away from your EX. no way your EX will like it... moving on guys... keep it cool.  think it as a rite of passage. both gender please keep it cool. its actually helping your EX to keep thinking about you. you being needy stress him/her out.

ERROR #3: Doormat syndrome and giving them power

its actually a psychology term for someone who just breakup.malay term... tempat lap kaki. "please i will do anything for you i will never look to someone else just please come back to me" dangerous to girls . you might end up at the hotel. you must have your self respect dude.

ERROR #4: Gifts, Call, Text, Wishes

its doesn't build attraction at all. these are things that actually not your EX want to... they actually want a new spark and attraction that make him/her wanna be with you again. things that make him/her miss you so much. things that make him/her regret leaving you.

ERROR #5: not keep it cool and no strategy

its a war people... its even harder than playing chess actually or any PC game. one mistake and you are dead and outta from the war. keep your head straight and let's revive our potential and charms. get back your power of love. keep it armed and loaded.

there must be a reason why the hell he/she leaving you. if you can ask him and investigate yourself the true reason. if the reason is yourself being pathetic, change yourself to be a better person... if the reason because of someone else... you still can win it. if it because of things that you cannot change ... you have to move on even if its hard.

if the reason is things that you can win it, lets check our weapon then.  

you have to remember... attraction.  women an use the play hard to get.. make him jealous moves.. if he still got the heat on you. he will regret losing you.

men...  become a great awesome and famous guy... make every girls craving for you. she will feels miserable leaving you behind dude.. 

but still... remember... rather than chasing someone that leaving you.  its better meeting someone who really care for you. its all happen with a good reason.